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In my private practice and school counseling position, the use of magic
has had a tremendous positive impact on my clients. It helps me build
trust and rapport with children quickly and often serves as a great ice
breaker when working with groups.
Magic can be used metaphorically to teach about change, growth and life
skills. Magic is a great positive reinforcement for good behavior. It
is also a useful diagnostic tool, particularly for depression.

In general, kids are naturally drawn to the power of well done magical
illusions, and this attraction can help us capitalize on potential therapeutic
gains.
The utilization of magic to help children improve their social skills
also has great potential. This may be because learning and performing
magic are 100% social activities - you must interact with others. With
the judicious use of magic, you will see plenty of therapeutic gain and
you do not require much magical know how.
I have created a social skills program simply called the Magic Club.
It involves six to eight group members in fourth grade or older who receive
training in age-appropriate tricks and then perform those tricks for an
audience. In six highly positive and supportive group sessions, they also
learn and practice assertiveness skills; this includes role-playing social
situations that can arise in the course of doing magic with peers. For
example, how do you handle someone who disrupts you when you are doing
a magic presentation? What do you say to a good friend who has given away
the secret to your best magic trick?
In my Magic Club, I've repeatedly enjoyed a high degree of teamwork,
cooperation and overall great attitudes. The group members arrive early
and can't wait to learn the skill of magic! The knowledge that they will
receive a new magic skill serves as good incentive to "hang in there"
for some serious focus on oral presentations and assertiveness exercises.
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I introduce each new trick and its script in front of the
group and clearly model the skills of presentation, like face the audience,
scan, speak loudly and clearly.
The group members then break into pairs and practice informally
on their own. I provide individual instruction as needed, allow plenty
of time, and promote a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere where everyone
succeeds. For some of the group members, this is a welcome contrast to
their prior peer group experiences.
After learning the presentation skills and magic trick rehearsal,
individual members take turns performing for the group. I position myself
in the back of the room and play the role of coach. It is very helpful
for performers to have the script or routine on a flip chart.
When the presentation is finished, cheering and applause
are encouraged. Supportive performance feedback is given by the group
leader and members.
It is quite useful and enjoyable to have group members share
their performance experiences as well as any experiences they have had
outside of the group where they have practiced assertiveness. It is important
that students get a chance to talk about their successes and frustrations
in performing magic and interacting with others.
Students who struggle with shyness, friendship difficulties
and assertiveness are will suited for this group.
The hoped for outcome of the group session is that the students
experience an increase in self-esteem and confidence as well as mastery
of an interactive skill.
An important requirement for starting this group is to become
familiar enough with children's magic that you can teach it. This is not
hard! it will take only an hour or two of practice.
Interested in the curriculum for
starting your own Magic Club
for social skills improvement?
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